"There must be 50 ways to leave your lover." Not sure how to break up with your boyfriend? Breaking up made easy. The article gives you 3 break up tips based on his personality type.
So it's time to call it a day. How do you go about giving your boyfriend the dreaded news that you don't want to see him anymore? Breaking up with someone is never easy. While you have already made up your mind, often for the other the news is coming like a bolt out of the blue. The best way to break up is to determine his personality type and then follow this break up advice.
1: Mr Ego (I'm too sexy). At first, you couldn't believe your luck at snagging this hot guy. All your friends were jealous of you dating this Adonis. He even has beautiful manners and is polite to your parents. However, now you have come to realize that those drop dead gorgeous looks come at a price and that this guy is Mr High Maintenance. He has more visits to the beauty counter than you, and visits the hair stylist on a regular basis to maintain that trendy do. His life really revolves around himself and his image. Deep down, he's really superficial.
The send off: The best way to dump this walking mirror is straight up. Tell him you don't like doing what he does and that you have different interests. Fundamentally, you don't think you have anything in common, except perhaps for product. Not only will you be fare welling this shallow creature but you may decrease the size of his ego as well.
2: Mr Nice Guy (Get a life). This guy has been the perfect boyfriend. He sends you flowers, watches chick flicks happily, accompanies you to the mall willingly, and even likes your friends. His mantra is "anything you want to do is fine with me". Now you are getting tired of him not having a mind of his own and feeling a bit like you want your own space. There is no challenge in this relationship. Don't just keep dating this guy because he is too nice to hurt, or you will just end up not being able to stand him. This won't make you the world's nicest girlfriend.
The send off: Breaking up with this too nice guy can be really hard. He is so nice that you don't want to hurt his feelings. You can't just say to him "you are so nice you are making me sick". You have to break up with this guy gently. Whatever you do, don't say "it's not you, it's me". This guy deserves better than that. You could try a line like "you deserve someone better than me" or "it's not a good time for me to have a boyfriend" or 'I really like you, but the chemistry just isn't right". Whatever you say, try to be kind but firm. This sort of personality can make a great guy pal so try to convert him into a platonic friend.
3: Mr Insecure (Mr Needy). Initially, you thought he was the one. You fell for each other hard. He was perfect. He was your soul mate. You were sooo in love with each other. Utterly smitten. He was totally besotted with you to start with. Everything was perfect. Now, you have noticed you spend all your time with him and you can't remember the last time you saw your friends. Your soul mate is not being quite so affectionate with you and has started getting a bit terse as well. Lately, he has even started saying he is the best thing you are ever going to get. This guy's method of operation is to lure you in and then have you so dependent on him that you are frightened to leave him. He has removed you from everyone else to isolate you. This guy is terribly insecure and it is time to break up before he totally does your head in. If you stick with this guy, pretty soon he will have you believing that you are lucky that even he tolerates you.
The send off: Treat this guy with kid gloves when you break up. This guy is most likely to put on an Oscar winning performance of tears and remorse. He will promise to change. He won't. The best way to deal with him is to tell him you are not ready for such a level of commitment. Ignore his pleading. Don't give him a second chance because the relationship will only deteriorate further.
Other classic kiss offs: If you can't determine his personality, or none seem appropriate, you can always try one of these well used lines to dump him.
"I want to get married and have your babies." Guaranteed to never see him again.
"I have decided I prefer girls." Drastic statement that works well.
"My family disapproves and will disown me if I continue to see you." Really?
"I have met someone else." Even if you haven't, this is very final sounding.
Be strong. Steel yourself. You have decided it's time to break up. Use these break up tips to your advantage. Now go find a better boyfriend!
Farewell, Coco Swan.
How to Know if Your Girlfriend Is Cheating on You
[edit] Steps
Observe. What led you to beleive she was cheating. Is it her new "Friend"? Is she spending less time with you? Is she staring at some other guy when you talk to her?
Tell her you love her. Does she say it back? Hold her hand. Does she try to pull it away? Does she look nervous? Do her eyes dart around possibly looking to see if "the other guy" is watching? These are signs that she MIGHT be cheating. However, some girls are shy and if the relationship is new she may be uncomfortable with some things. Although, if it is new, she probably wouldn't be cheating, would she?
Many women in this day and age have confused sexualities because of shifting standards. Your girlfriend might be cheating on you if she is experimenting either with kinks or other genders. Do NOT confront about this. Try looking for things in her web-browser history: Google searches, Wikipedia pages visited, maybe even porno sites. If you find anything like bondage, anal, or bisexualism, try bringing it up as if it were your fantasy. More than likely if she can find it at home, she won't go looking for it elsewhere.
Remember that the reason cheating is painful is not because of the act but for all the reasons it took place. Do not focus on the cheating act - try and repair or confront any relationship troubles. Either your relationship will end or it will be better than before, and either way the majority of the time she will confess to cheating.
Ask about her from her friends.( not "IS she having another boy friend ).But her regular activiteis.Then you will be able to get some tips.
Ask the specility of your from other boys.Then if she starts to think after answering you that means she is thinking about the other BOY.
[edit] Tips
Don't just randomly ask her, "Hey, you wouldn't happen to be cheating on me, would you?" She's going to say no anyway and she'll think you don't trust her.
Girls are allowed to have guy friends. And they are generally more physical with friends, regardless of gender, so don't assume she's cheating if you see her hug another guy. Might want to just watch a littler closer.
If she happens to text "guy friends" out of the blue, asking them to hang out. Usually means shes thinking about it. Usually if the guy friend asks her how she and her boyfriend are doing, it means that the guy friend wants to "hook up". Making sure she is single, but usually that doesn't matter. And if that doesn't stop her from wanting to hangout with them, shes definantly wanting to cheat or at least thinking about it.
[edit] Warnings
Accusing a girl of cheating may get you dumped.
The only way to really know is if you catch her. But please don't stalk her in an attempt to catch her cheating.
Nothing you can do will dictate her actions. Sometimes there is simply nothing you can do but walk away. Never, ever dismiss this as an option or you will not get anywhere.
Hacking into her computer, phone etc is illegal. But it may be the only source of evidence you get.
[edit] Things You'll Need
A level head. Do not fly into an emotional rage or you WILL make mistakes.
A serious sense of identity. When you're thinking short-term and small perspective, you will not be able to cope with everything. You as a person are more important than any relationship, and any relationship that can't be worked out isn't worth sacrificing yourself for.
Connections. Get to know the people close to her its not needed but knowing her friends could ultimately mean that you can use them to confront her about it.
[edit] Related wikiHows
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How to Keep a Phone Conversation Going With Your Girlfriend
How to Earn Your Girlfriend's Trust
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Signs if your loved one is cheating on you....
Hi...Please share your experiences or insights when you can tell that your significant other is cheating on you.... Can you tell that she/he is cheating if her/his cellphone is always empty batt if you are not together? Is something going on if he/she is not informing you of his/her whereabouts etc.? Hope to hear some PROVEN insights..
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1. rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Hi dom_ryan09... Well, usually the first thing that you'll notice about your partner is that he/she, for some reason, becomes cold. Meaning he/she doesn't suddenly stops doing things that you used to do together. Another is if he/she is constantly texting and when you ask, they say it's a friend. I don't think not telling you where you are is a sign. I don't really know. I'm not one to ask where exactly a person is. For some reason, girls have a better sense when it comes to cheating boyfriends. I don't know if other girls would agree with me but I think even if there are signs, the girl just seems to feel that there's something wrong. If you get my drift...
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Thank you rosedust82 for that insight... Yes, perhaps you are correct that telling her whereabouts is a NOT an absolute sign of cheating... But don't you think, it's also a sign of being cold to you? She used to tell me her whereabouts before, every little things she actually tells me but now, she's telling me that she's busy with some stuffs like work etc. etc. which I can't understand... Do you think the problem is with me now?
rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Well... I don't personally know your girlfriend so I can't really say... However, let's give her the benefit of the doubt... She might be very busy especially if her work is eating up her time. I think the best thing to do is when you're together, talk about what you feel and if there's someone else. I mean don't say it in a way that is demanding or accusing because it'll just make her more defensive. Ask. If she's honest, she'd say what's on her mind. Reassure her that whatever it is, you won't get mad (although it might be that way if you do find out that she is.Lol) That's the best thing that I can think of in your situation. Ask and be open to the possibility of hearing something that you don't want to hear.
rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Well... I don't personally know your girlfriend so I can't really say... However, let's give her the benefit of the doubt... She might be very busy especially if her work is eating up her time. I think the best thing to do is when you're together, talk about what you feel and if there's someone else. I mean don't say it in a way that is demanding or accusing because it'll just make her more defensive. Ask. If she's honest, she'd say what's on her mind. Reassure her that whatever it is, you won't get mad (although it might be that way if you do find out that she is.Lol) That's the best thing that I can think of in your situation. Ask and be open to the possibility of hearing something that you don't want to hear.
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2. Shar1979 (2280) ranked 6,738 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
when he's cellphone is always ringing and he has to go somewhere to answer it when you're around, when he stays up late at night, when he's not being romantic anymore, when he spends less time with you, when he goes home late from work, when he don;t call you much when he's out of your home like he used to, when he mention somebody else's name when he's sleeping, when he dont compliment you when you're wearing sexy lingerie and wont make love to you
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Thank you Shar1979 for your response... I would just like to know if you want to end the relationship, do you tell him directly or have him feels your "coldness" that you don't like him anymore and you wanna move out of the relationship?
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3. n30wing (2093) ranked 1,028 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
I think you can feel it if your partner is cheating on you. Like she/he has alot of excuses not to see you. Now if your in one roof, he?she acts strange like he or she is acting differently. The sweetness is lesser even the thoughtfulness, and even taken you for granted and don't wanna talk. I believe in feeling when your having doubts with what you feel, that your starting to lie even in small matters. And he/ she can't look at you eye to eye.Have a nice day!
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4. Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Wow, i will share my experiences with different men in my life; ok if he is a spanish man whether from mexico, spain, colombia dont matter they are just those type of men not to tell you their where abouts they feel that they are men and dont have to report to anyone but that doesnt mean they are unfaithful because i will tell you my fiance who is colombian is 55yrs old, my friends fiance is from mexico and they both do the same thing they dont report to their woman but they are very faithful and we both know this to be a fact. as far as the cellphone goes well there really could be a number of reason for it being an empty battery ummm one maybe they dont have signal in certain areas and states some services just dont have signal everywhere, it could they have off at work and forget to turn it back on unless they need to use it for something, that reason is really endless again with spanish men you never know lol. ok now i will tell you about my experiences with a cheating american man and a cheating black man. ok with the black well he was pretty obvious he made excuses about things when he was lying and was very michievious but he gave himself away because he would flirt and cheat in front of you. Now the worst one of all was a military american soldier who cheated on me for 7yrs, now being an ex military soldier myself i know how it works and i knew his boss, most of his employees below him etc. i found out he was cheating by emails from other woman who would say things like they aint cleaned their house since he left and i confronted them of course, i found leave passes to other woman houses, he would stay til almost midnight at work and no one was there, he would come home at like oh 5 or 6pm then all of a sudden at like 10pm he would say ooops i forgot to turn off the lights at work and then his work was only 5mins away but yet he wouldnt come home for 1-2hrs. some men will avoid you, avoid sleeping with you or kissing you, usually their whole attitudes changes and sometimes they become more jittering. with woman well depends on the type of woman because she is usually more cautious but sometimes her concious will get the best of her and she will slip of if either men or woman drink they usually slip, in either case my advice whether you are a man or woman who feels that your beloved is cheating on you i would say pray about it and ask the truth to be revealed because i promise you it will be revealed if this is your case. sometimes you can find different cologne or perfume smells on them then the ones they wore before they went out, you can find lipstick that isnt yours around them, mysterious clothing appearing, etc. good luck.
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5. kkanaka (222) ranked 13,994 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Of course you can tell, there will obviously be many changes which will not go unnoticed by you, things will happen which you can see clearly but you still would want to ignore it and pray that its not true, if he/she jumps at a phone call you can tell, is too secretive if he receives any sms or call, or doesnt give full details about his whereabouts... it will take some time to sink in but ultimately you will get all the signals and you wont be able to deny it to yourself...
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
kkanaka, i never said to ignore it but i did say to pray about it, of course you never ignore your instincts or the signs, but you should always evaluate the situation as a whole before just jumping to conclusions.
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6. despompa (371) ranked 2,062 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
i've heard this from my friends who had had encountered these problems. if your husband/wife is not comfortable leaving the cellphone anywhere in the house and if he/she is too panicky whenever the message alert tone beeped then most probably there's something that he/she is hiding. i've never experienced this with my husband. he is too faithful and very much inlove. lol!
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
You are lucky with your husband, despompa!:-)
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7. Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Dom, in regards to your comment to rose, umm ill share with you something and i really hope that she is cheating but i can honestly say and will honestly say that i am not cheating on my husband but if i was i would tell you for the purpose of this but i am not. Ok the reason i mention this is because before, for the last 2.5 yrs i use to tell my husband everywhere i went even if it was just downstairs to check the mail or to go pay bills, but recently i havent been telling him because i am only out with my caregiver which is both of our friends so he knows that usually when i go out now it is for appts, just to look around at stores to get out of the house or to do paperwork but i am not doing anything wrong i just i dunno i figure since i am with our mutual friend that he wouldnt worry but a couple days ago he told me it bothered him, he asked me why i changed and i told him i am busy but it slipped my mind because now because of my disability i dont go out alone anymore i go out with a female mutual friend. try not to worry just pray and ask God to reveal the truth and bring it to the light because sometimes men or woman may change and unless its pointed out to us we dont realize how it affects the other person. try talking to her in just casual conversation not to make a big deal of it and you might be suprised ok and pray.
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Your response really made me reflect that I should not be thinking that she actually falling out of love with me... Thanks for the advise that yeah, you're right that I have to talk to her in a casula conversation so we can settle our own concerns and not to make a big deal on it... Again, thak you so much
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
i am sorry i meant that i really hope she isnt cheating
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Dom, you are more than welcome and i really hope the best for you, remember all couples i dont care if they have been together a few months or up to 100 yrs or more, all couples will go through problems, communication is the key, my friend always says a closed mouth doesnt get fed in another words if you stress and keep your mouth shut then nothing will ever have a chance of being resolved. wishing and praying for you both. keep us posted.
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8. ladysurvivor (3510) ranked 322 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
There are a number of ways in which you can detect whether your spouse is cheating on you. First if you live together it would be much easier to detect the changes that is happening to him/her. The obvious ones can be told without thinking. For example if your husband doesn't like to wear perfume to work, but now everyday we wears perfume. It must be something that is going on. Another thing, if he always look at the mirror, observing his face while humming a song as if he is so happy. This is also a sign of a person in love. Another is when he suddenly changed his appearance. He always want to look nice when he goes out without you, but when he goes out with you he doesn't care much about his appearance. You can notice this without much effort. Another is like what you told just now. Every time when you call him his battery would be out and this is not a good sign, unless you are very sure that his battery is out of order and need a replacement. If this happens you should start checking his messages and phone history but do this without his knowledge or else he might get angry at you. That's all from me. Hope everything is okay with you.
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Nice one! Thank you for your response...
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9. redhotpogo (1081) ranked 7,378 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
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10. maxilimian (792) ranked 949 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
I don't know about this ... is that there is something wrong too when you found that your cellphones partner message outbox, sent and incoming or outgoing call is always empty is a sign that the person is cheating right now?
behnke (19) ranked 20,212 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Depends I suppose.Is it only recently that your partners inbox is empty?Or is it a personality trade or an obsession with him to keep it cleared.Does he keep his phone off or answers it behind your back? Maybe this person is cheating,how is his other actions or maybe you don't like his friends and now he deletes their messages.....it's all a catch 22 really, you know yourself and your partner so maybe if you suspect it its true.
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1. rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
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Hi dom_ryan09... Well, usually the first thing that you'll notice about your partner is that he/she, for some reason, becomes cold. Meaning he/she doesn't suddenly stops doing things that you used to do together. Another is if he/she is constantly texting and when you ask, they say it's a friend. I don't think not telling you where you are is a sign. I don't really know. I'm not one to ask where exactly a person is. For some reason, girls have a better sense when it comes to cheating boyfriends. I don't know if other girls would agree with me but I think even if there are signs, the girl just seems to feel that there's something wrong. If you get my drift...
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Thank you rosedust82 for that insight... Yes, perhaps you are correct that telling her whereabouts is a NOT an absolute sign of cheating... But don't you think, it's also a sign of being cold to you? She used to tell me her whereabouts before, every little things she actually tells me but now, she's telling me that she's busy with some stuffs like work etc. etc. which I can't understand... Do you think the problem is with me now?
rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Well... I don't personally know your girlfriend so I can't really say... However, let's give her the benefit of the doubt... She might be very busy especially if her work is eating up her time. I think the best thing to do is when you're together, talk about what you feel and if there's someone else. I mean don't say it in a way that is demanding or accusing because it'll just make her more defensive. Ask. If she's honest, she'd say what's on her mind. Reassure her that whatever it is, you won't get mad (although it might be that way if you do find out that she is.Lol) That's the best thing that I can think of in your situation. Ask and be open to the possibility of hearing something that you don't want to hear.
rosedust82 (1205) ranked 2,543 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Well... I don't personally know your girlfriend so I can't really say... However, let's give her the benefit of the doubt... She might be very busy especially if her work is eating up her time. I think the best thing to do is when you're together, talk about what you feel and if there's someone else. I mean don't say it in a way that is demanding or accusing because it'll just make her more defensive. Ask. If she's honest, she'd say what's on her mind. Reassure her that whatever it is, you won't get mad (although it might be that way if you do find out that she is.Lol) That's the best thing that I can think of in your situation. Ask and be open to the possibility of hearing something that you don't want to hear.
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2. Shar1979 (2280) ranked 6,738 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
when he's cellphone is always ringing and he has to go somewhere to answer it when you're around, when he stays up late at night, when he's not being romantic anymore, when he spends less time with you, when he goes home late from work, when he don;t call you much when he's out of your home like he used to, when he mention somebody else's name when he's sleeping, when he dont compliment you when you're wearing sexy lingerie and wont make love to you
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Thank you Shar1979 for your response... I would just like to know if you want to end the relationship, do you tell him directly or have him feels your "coldness" that you don't like him anymore and you wanna move out of the relationship?
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3. n30wing (2093) ranked 1,028 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
I think you can feel it if your partner is cheating on you. Like she/he has alot of excuses not to see you. Now if your in one roof, he?she acts strange like he or she is acting differently. The sweetness is lesser even the thoughtfulness, and even taken you for granted and don't wanna talk. I believe in feeling when your having doubts with what you feel, that your starting to lie even in small matters. And he/ she can't look at you eye to eye.Have a nice day!
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4. Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Wow, i will share my experiences with different men in my life; ok if he is a spanish man whether from mexico, spain, colombia dont matter they are just those type of men not to tell you their where abouts they feel that they are men and dont have to report to anyone but that doesnt mean they are unfaithful because i will tell you my fiance who is colombian is 55yrs old, my friends fiance is from mexico and they both do the same thing they dont report to their woman but they are very faithful and we both know this to be a fact. as far as the cellphone goes well there really could be a number of reason for it being an empty battery ummm one maybe they dont have signal in certain areas and states some services just dont have signal everywhere, it could they have off at work and forget to turn it back on unless they need to use it for something, that reason is really endless again with spanish men you never know lol. ok now i will tell you about my experiences with a cheating american man and a cheating black man. ok with the black well he was pretty obvious he made excuses about things when he was lying and was very michievious but he gave himself away because he would flirt and cheat in front of you. Now the worst one of all was a military american soldier who cheated on me for 7yrs, now being an ex military soldier myself i know how it works and i knew his boss, most of his employees below him etc. i found out he was cheating by emails from other woman who would say things like they aint cleaned their house since he left and i confronted them of course, i found leave passes to other woman houses, he would stay til almost midnight at work and no one was there, he would come home at like oh 5 or 6pm then all of a sudden at like 10pm he would say ooops i forgot to turn off the lights at work and then his work was only 5mins away but yet he wouldnt come home for 1-2hrs. some men will avoid you, avoid sleeping with you or kissing you, usually their whole attitudes changes and sometimes they become more jittering. with woman well depends on the type of woman because she is usually more cautious but sometimes her concious will get the best of her and she will slip of if either men or woman drink they usually slip, in either case my advice whether you are a man or woman who feels that your beloved is cheating on you i would say pray about it and ask the truth to be revealed because i promise you it will be revealed if this is your case. sometimes you can find different cologne or perfume smells on them then the ones they wore before they went out, you can find lipstick that isnt yours around them, mysterious clothing appearing, etc. good luck.
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5. kkanaka (222) ranked 13,994 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Of course you can tell, there will obviously be many changes which will not go unnoticed by you, things will happen which you can see clearly but you still would want to ignore it and pray that its not true, if he/she jumps at a phone call you can tell, is too secretive if he receives any sms or call, or doesnt give full details about his whereabouts... it will take some time to sink in but ultimately you will get all the signals and you wont be able to deny it to yourself...
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
kkanaka, i never said to ignore it but i did say to pray about it, of course you never ignore your instincts or the signs, but you should always evaluate the situation as a whole before just jumping to conclusions.
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6. despompa (371) ranked 2,062 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
i've heard this from my friends who had had encountered these problems. if your husband/wife is not comfortable leaving the cellphone anywhere in the house and if he/she is too panicky whenever the message alert tone beeped then most probably there's something that he/she is hiding. i've never experienced this with my husband. he is too faithful and very much inlove. lol!
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
You are lucky with your husband, despompa!:-)
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7. Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Dom, in regards to your comment to rose, umm ill share with you something and i really hope that she is cheating but i can honestly say and will honestly say that i am not cheating on my husband but if i was i would tell you for the purpose of this but i am not. Ok the reason i mention this is because before, for the last 2.5 yrs i use to tell my husband everywhere i went even if it was just downstairs to check the mail or to go pay bills, but recently i havent been telling him because i am only out with my caregiver which is both of our friends so he knows that usually when i go out now it is for appts, just to look around at stores to get out of the house or to do paperwork but i am not doing anything wrong i just i dunno i figure since i am with our mutual friend that he wouldnt worry but a couple days ago he told me it bothered him, he asked me why i changed and i told him i am busy but it slipped my mind because now because of my disability i dont go out alone anymore i go out with a female mutual friend. try not to worry just pray and ask God to reveal the truth and bring it to the light because sometimes men or woman may change and unless its pointed out to us we dont realize how it affects the other person. try talking to her in just casual conversation not to make a big deal of it and you might be suprised ok and pray.
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Your response really made me reflect that I should not be thinking that she actually falling out of love with me... Thanks for the advise that yeah, you're right that I have to talk to her in a casula conversation so we can settle our own concerns and not to make a big deal on it... Again, thak you so much
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
i am sorry i meant that i really hope she isnt cheating
Zelda414 (89) ranked 9,439 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Dom, you are more than welcome and i really hope the best for you, remember all couples i dont care if they have been together a few months or up to 100 yrs or more, all couples will go through problems, communication is the key, my friend always says a closed mouth doesnt get fed in another words if you stress and keep your mouth shut then nothing will ever have a chance of being resolved. wishing and praying for you both. keep us posted.
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8. ladysurvivor (3510) ranked 322 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
There are a number of ways in which you can detect whether your spouse is cheating on you. First if you live together it would be much easier to detect the changes that is happening to him/her. The obvious ones can be told without thinking. For example if your husband doesn't like to wear perfume to work, but now everyday we wears perfume. It must be something that is going on. Another thing, if he always look at the mirror, observing his face while humming a song as if he is so happy. This is also a sign of a person in love. Another is when he suddenly changed his appearance. He always want to look nice when he goes out without you, but when he goes out with you he doesn't care much about his appearance. You can notice this without much effort. Another is like what you told just now. Every time when you call him his battery would be out and this is not a good sign, unless you are very sure that his battery is out of order and need a replacement. If this happens you should start checking his messages and phone history but do this without his knowledge or else he might get angry at you. That's all from me. Hope everything is okay with you.
dom_ryan09 (33)
10 months ago
Nice one! Thank you for your response...
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9. redhotpogo (1081) ranked 7,378 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
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10. maxilimian (792) ranked 949 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
I don't know about this ... is that there is something wrong too when you found that your cellphones partner message outbox, sent and incoming or outgoing call is always empty is a sign that the person is cheating right now?
behnke (19) ranked 20,212 out of 35,748 in life
10 months ago
Depends I suppose.Is it only recently that your partners inbox is empty?Or is it a personality trade or an obsession with him to keep it cleared.Does he keep his phone off or answers it behind your back? Maybe this person is cheating,how is his other actions or maybe you don't like his friends and now he deletes their messages.....it's all a catch 22 really, you know yourself and your partner so maybe if you suspect it its true.
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Revolving Door Disaster - Thats Embarrassing!!
This happened to me last year, the summer after I graduated college. I was rushing around my apartment packing for a trip to Mexico with my boyfriend when I realized I should buy a bathing suit. I decided to make a quick trip to the mall. I threw on one of my boyfriend's old button-up shirts and a pair of jeans. I didn't wear a bra because I thought it would save time trying bikini tops on and my breasts are really perky anyway so no one would notice. Well, I got to the mall and found a bathing suit in record time, but as I was leaving...disaster struck. I exited the mall through the main entrance, which has this big plaza area and a huge revolving door to the parking lot.
I stepped into the door just behind this guy, figuring he knew I was behind him. Well, he didn't, and without realizing I was there he suddenly turned and pushed the door in the opposite direction. I felt something pulling be back very tightly, and realized by baggy shirt had gotten caught in the door. I just panicked and started straining forward, and the worst possible thing happened: the buttons of my shirt popped off almost all at once, leaving me completely topless. With most of my shirt now caught in the door, it stopped moving, leaving me trapped inside. My hands were still caught in the cuffs of my shirt, so my arms were pinned behind me and there was no way to cover up. Groups of people were gathering on the sidewalk in front of me who had wanted to get into the mall, and I'm sure there were a lot of people inside who wanted to get out. I tried to pull my arms free, but that only made my breasts press up against the glass, a real treat for the teenage guys outside with their cell-phone cameras. I just had to stand there and wait for a maintenance guy while they all laughed and stared--it took about twenty minutes but if felt like an eternity! I still can't go to a mall without blushing, much less use a revolving door!
I stepped into the door just behind this guy, figuring he knew I was behind him. Well, he didn't, and without realizing I was there he suddenly turned and pushed the door in the opposite direction. I felt something pulling be back very tightly, and realized by baggy shirt had gotten caught in the door. I just panicked and started straining forward, and the worst possible thing happened: the buttons of my shirt popped off almost all at once, leaving me completely topless. With most of my shirt now caught in the door, it stopped moving, leaving me trapped inside. My hands were still caught in the cuffs of my shirt, so my arms were pinned behind me and there was no way to cover up. Groups of people were gathering on the sidewalk in front of me who had wanted to get into the mall, and I'm sure there were a lot of people inside who wanted to get out. I tried to pull my arms free, but that only made my breasts press up against the glass, a real treat for the teenage guys outside with their cell-phone cameras. I just had to stand there and wait for a maintenance guy while they all laughed and stared--it took about twenty minutes but if felt like an eternity! I still can't go to a mall without blushing, much less use a revolving door!
Wedgie And Worm Freshman Beating - Thats Embarrassing
I'm a freshman in high school and in the first week of school these girls got me and got me BAD!!! Well, I was walking down the street near these woods at about 3:00p.m. and I walked past these senior girls and they said "hey freshman come here!" So I got scared and started running, I'm pretty fast too, One of them tackled me and they pulled me into the woods. The one that tackled me (we'll call her Kali) and her friend (let's say Mary) pushed me high up, against a chain link fence and the one that watched and followed (we'll name her Leann) went behind the fence and pulled my underwear up REALLY high and it hurt so bad I started crying.
Leann put a tennis ball in it and twisted it around and to add to the pain Kali and Mary let go leaving me dangling by my panties and I started screaming and crying and begging them to let me down. Leann said "look at the wittle baby bitch cwying! And they stripped me(to nothing except my pink C-cup frilly bra and my frilly pink panties to match my bra) that's when I started bawling. Then Mary said "let's help little miss baby!" so she grabbed sugar and poured it down my panties! Kali came over with a handful of worms and said "here ya go beotch!" The worms were eating the sugar in my crotch! then to make it even worse they started to put twigs in the back of my panties. To top it all off they took off my bra and twisted my nipples really hard. They then spun me around and started slapping my butt after at least 50 spankings they left. I hung for about 5 minutes and my panties ripped. Since there were worms and twigs in my panties I took off all my underwear and ran home completely naked... If you don't believe me you don't have to but it's good to get that off my chest :)
Leann put a tennis ball in it and twisted it around and to add to the pain Kali and Mary let go leaving me dangling by my panties and I started screaming and crying and begging them to let me down. Leann said "look at the wittle baby bitch cwying! And they stripped me(to nothing except my pink C-cup frilly bra and my frilly pink panties to match my bra) that's when I started bawling. Then Mary said "let's help little miss baby!" so she grabbed sugar and poured it down my panties! Kali came over with a handful of worms and said "here ya go beotch!" The worms were eating the sugar in my crotch! then to make it even worse they started to put twigs in the back of my panties. To top it all off they took off my bra and twisted my nipples really hard. They then spun me around and started slapping my butt after at least 50 spankings they left. I hung for about 5 minutes and my panties ripped. Since there were worms and twigs in my panties I took off all my underwear and ran home completely naked... If you don't believe me you don't have to but it's good to get that off my chest :)
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